Double-Minded

picture_kafka_drawingA double-minded man is unstable in all his ways. James 1:8

The debate between an ontological atonement and a forensic atonement will doubtless continue – they represent two very different world-views and understandings of our relationship with God. The details of that debate will likely be tedious for most people and seem like much ado about nothing. But since they are world-views, even people who have no position in the debate will have an inner sympathy with one or the other. They are part of the cultural air we breathe.

Is salvation a matter of choices, attitudes, relationships and debts? Is God extrinsic to us? Is our salvation about being considered righteous by God?

Or is our salvation a matter of our very being? Are we verging on non-existence? Is sin the result of a process of death and decay at work in us? Is righteousness an actual state of  being?

I could press this distinction further – but I hope posing the questions in this manner frames things sufficiently.

I think that regardless of where you come down in this discussion, your default position will likely be forensic. Modern culture itself is forensic in nature. We think of ourselves and other people as utterly distinct individuals. Their actions may involve me if I react (psychological) or if they physically attack me, but we are essentially distinct. I might care about someone else, even love them, but my caring is an emotional state, able to motivate me to loving action, but is not itself an action. Relationships are social contracts. There are obligations to family, Church, state, etc., but these obligations are always a matter for negotiation. Traditions are simply old social contracts. These contracts are serious – we put a great deal of emotion and value on the contracts that “bind” us to other people. But the bond is legal.

The evolution of marriage in our present culture is only possible in a forensic culture (it may indeed have been inevitable). If relationships are essentially contractual (and not ontological), then relationships are only definitions. There is nothing inherent to a relationship that cannot be negotiated (if everyone involved agrees). Forensic Christians have been at a deep loss to explain why marriage cannot be extended beyond traditional gender bounds. The appeal to Divine Law (the trump card of forensic thought) simply holds no sway in an increasingly secular culture. Why should other people’s relationships have to conform to my religious beliefs, since my religious beliefs only represent a contract between myself and God?

That many people have a deep instinct that there is something wrong in all this carries no weight in the argument. “Feeling something is wrong” can be accounted for by appeals to prejudice and bias. As the culture’s forensic understanding evolves, it will easily (and soon) judge those who refuse to accept the new norm as evil people – much as we currently feel about racists. Forensically-based Christians will soon discover that the culture they helped create has changed and that they themselves will soon be accounted as evil. That many Protestant Christians have already made the evolutionary leap and accepted new contractual arrangements as acceptable is not surprising. Their numbers will be growing very quickly.

This cultural weakness of the forensic world-view is an illustration of but one of its many failures. Relationships are not contracts. That which unites human beings one to another is not choice, but being. We are ontologically related. What someone else does, and what I do, effects others whether I want it to or not – and on a level deeper than the events my actions set in motion.

St. Paul invokes something other than a forensic world-view when he cautions the Corinthians against sexual immorality:

Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a harlot? Certainly not! Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For “the two,” He says, “shall become one flesh.” But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him (1Co 6:15-17 NKJ).

A forensic approach would simply have made an appeal to the Law and said that fornication is contrary to the commandments. But Paul’s understanding is not forensic – he views human relationships as ontological – rooted in our being. Thus sex is not simply an action which it right or wrong, measured against an objective standard. Sex is physical union. There is a mystical and physical aspect to sexual relations that utterly transcends any notion of a contract. To engage sexually with a “harlot,” is to become “one flesh.” It violates marriage, not just because an agreement has been broken, but because the man is already united to his wife. More than this, since we have been united to Christ (and are thus one flesh with Christ), even an unmarried man is uniting himself to a harlot – and any Christian man is uniting Christ to the harlot.

This mechanism of union belongs to an ontological world-view. The forensic approach, which grounds human (and human/divine) relationships in psychology, law and contract, has something of a disembodied view of human beings. Bodies are things that we use – but we are essentially minds. It is therefore not surprising that the Christian sacraments are somewhat problematic for the forensic world-view. Strangely, Christ instituted these very material means by which Christians are called to relate to Him. Thus, even in systems that have a “high” view of the sacraments, their materiality is an “outward expression” of an “inner, spiritual” reality. The material cannot be seen as spiritual – not without great trouble.

But Christ does not shy away from the very materiality of the world (having Himself become material!). “Take! Eat! This is my Body! Take! Eat! This is my Blood!” And yet more graphically, “Unless you eat my flesh and drink my blood you have no life in you.” Material imagery applied to grace, holiness, righteousness, mercy, etc., are far closer representations of the true meaning of these spiritual terms than the relational images generated by the forensic model.

Thus, in Baptism we are clothed: “For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ” (Gal 3:27 NKJ). St. Paul frequently tells his readers to “put on” something (breastplate of righteousness, the whole armor, love, etc.). The word literally means to “get dressed.” St. Paul can find no better language to describe the resurrection itself than “being clothed” (1Cor. 15). The Eastern Fathers saw in Adam and Eve’s being clothed in “tunics of skins” (Gen. 3:21) a provisional allowance of God for a humanity that had lost its true garment: light.

Material language for spiritual things has often been viewed as “primitive” or “magical” by those who hold to a forensic view. The non-materiality of forensic relations somehow seems more mature and insightful. But for all of its “sophistication,” it fails to accurately portray the truth of our existence. We are not utterly discrete individuals only relating through words and ideas. We are material beings. The Word of God did not become an idea – He became flesh. As flesh, He did not give us ideas – He gave us His flesh.

The Scripture abounds with very physical, material descriptions of divine things. The glory of God fills Solomon’s Temple so that the priests are pressed to the ground (1 Kings 8:11); the face of Moses shines with the light of God; the light of God is seen by the Apostles on the Mount of Transfiguration; the priests of God “clothe themselves in righteousness” (Psalm 132:9); the Holy Spirit appears as flame above the heads of the disciples in the upper room (Acts 2:3), etc. Such imagery can be dismissed as efforts to speak the ineffable (and this has some truth to it). But we too easily accept forensic language without question.

I recall some years ago meeting a Bulgarian scientist who had recently immigrated to America. He was Orthodox, but his former materialism still flavored his thought. He was convinced that icons emitted rays. His wife believed in the power of crystals. I was rather confounded by them. In time I have realized that they came from a very non-forensic world. The Church had been displaced by Communism and a material philosophy. But their materialism was, perhaps, closer to the language of Scripture than the forensic imagination. Their thoughts needed correction, but perhaps much less than those of the Western Christian who thinks of the world in terms of contracts and relationships.

In the meantime, most of us live in a state of double-mindedness. We struggle to think one thing but are still mired in another. For some, this discussion of imagery, comparing models of the atonement, will seem to be just a discussion about words. But that is itself a forensic thought. It’s only words…what does it matter? But it matters. It matters.

 

 

 

About Fr. Stephen Freeman

Fr. Stephen is a priest of the Orthodox Church in America, Pastor Emeritus of St. Anne Orthodox Church in Oak Ridge, Tennessee. He is also author of Everywhere Present and the Glory to God podcast series.



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227 responses to “Double-Minded”

  1. Dino Avatar
    Dino

    drewdter2000,
    concerning the difficulty for most people to discern the immeasurable merits of total obedience, and how (as Elder Ephraim of Katounakia used to repeat more often than any other saying) “obedience=Life, disobedience=death; I think in this day and age, few people can glean why…
    Perhaps if you think how enthusiastically you would embrace it after having been deluded to the point of seeing demons as angels more than once and then encountered an Elder with the discernment you obviously lacked in your previous self-assuredness, who, in the Holy Spirit, also loves you more than you can love yourself, then you might see how you would fall in love with total obedience towards him. And after that you might get a suspicion how obedience in the right context can be given such an exalted status, even when the context is not always perceived as so ideal (once you have discerningly made the choice of the context, it more often than not is)…

  2. PJ Avatar
    PJ

    Obviously, total obedience presupposes successfully discerning an elder or abbott who is spiritually worthy of such utter submission. Otherwise it is, as Drewster points out, sheer madness and a recipe for disaster. Just look at the state of my own church. Many priests and lay people refrained from coming forward and/or investigating and/or listening to their common sense out of “obedience” to those who didn’t deserve it.

  3. Dino Avatar
    Dino

    The one who is being obeyed obviously needs discernment or he is preparing his own hell, (if for example he goes against the other Elders’ advise and tells his monks to go fishing -out of his own volition and not that of the Spirit- although the weather is looking dangerous) however, even if the one who is carrying out the monastic ‘obedience’ is obedient to such a Father who lacks this discernment born of humility, and drowns in the sea out of obedience to an irrational ‘order’ that lacked such discernment (something that happened once in the Monastery of Gregoriou) he is still crowned a martyr…
    So, let us not think secularly concerning these matters or outside of the Orthodox Tradition.

  4. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    Today’s homily was on obedience: love of Christ is its impetus, humility is its essence and the actions of faith its manifestation. The fruit is our salvation.

  5. mary benton Avatar
    mary benton

    In the tradition of the desert fathers (and mothers), I have learned each year to ask for a word to guide me. While I might choose a word, often the word chooses me. That happened to me this year – and the word was “obedience”. I can’t say that I was thrilled – but I have come to love and embrace it.

    One thing I learned about the word is that, from its root, it means to “listen carefully”. To truly do this, to listen carefully and deeply, requires considerable humility (I’ve discovered this is a companion word for my journey.) There is a natural tendency to view my own opinions and views as best – when most certainly they are not. To embrace obedience is to allow oneself to be stripped of ego (aka false self)in order to follow the true Way of Christ.

    This said, I do not believe that one should ever assign one’s will completely over to another. I am the one responsible for my soul, not another, and my choices include who I choose to obey and to what degree.

    I do not doubt that there may be spiritual fathers/mothers whose holiness would be so obvious to me that I would not consider contradicting them – but not everyone has access to a guide who is at that level, nor is everyone at a point of spiritual readiness to trust another at that level. It is all a process.

    (I am not judging how things are done in monasteries but how I see it as “a monk in the world”.)

  6. Dino Avatar
    Dino

    Indeed, Michael and Mary, obedience (as understood in our tradition) is Love, it is what true freedom from Self and from Death, what the Life of the Resurrection, what “real repentance” actually looks like.
    It is of course a gift of the Holy Spirit -the Spirit of true Freedom- and is only ever acted out in complete freedom, it is therefore what the truly wise opt for when looking for the way to true freedom.

    If we remind ourselves that obedience (especially in the Orthodox Monastic tradition, is none other than the the safest way to do what I want to do the most (to do God’s will) -for a beginner-, we then see why it is the fastest way to get to where we really would want to be, but keep going round in circles instead.
    May the Lord grant us such wisdom…

  7. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    Mary, I am certainly a disobedient man but I have learned that there is no such thing as being conditionally obedient. One is either obedient or guided by one’s own will.

    One thing I do know is that God will even bring great blessings from obedience even after a specific disobedience. Not only is the sin of the disobedience removed but the obedience flowers into great fruit.

    Because obedience is an act of love it can come quite easily and naturally, at least specific instances of it.

    The trick is to live a life of obedience without second guessing or self-will disguised as discernment.

  8. mary benton Avatar
    mary benton

    Michael –

    “…I have learned that there is no such thing as being conditionally obedient.”

    I am certainly no expert on being obedient. However, I think there is danger in giving “blind obedience” to anyone who is in a position of authority. I also think, as one to whom others come for counsel, that it is very risky to tell another what to do and expect blind obedience.

    “I was only following orders,” is not an excuse for failing to use one’s own powers of discernment. I realize that no one here is using “obedience” in the context of carrying out genocide. But the reality is that there are people who abuse authority in all settings, though presumably very few if any in Orthodox monasteries. 🙂

  9. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    People abuse power. True.

    There are two ways that I know of to protect oneself against such abuse: be very careful and check out everything you possibly can and have a way out; love God with all your heart mind soul and strength and your neighbor as yourself.

    I have done quite a bit of the first. It ultimately requires some level of trust or I’d never do anything. Sometimes I have still gotten hurt.

    To trust God to the point that I can submit myself to Him with abandon fully knowing that He will provide for me is not “blind obedience” even when the action taken is in response to someone who is eaten up with lust of power.

    The few times I have acted in this manner I have been greatly rewarded.

    The key is working with God to soften one’s heart to the point that such love and trust is possible. That alone lessens the chance you will be asked to do such a thing.

    Does God love us willing the best for us?

    Do we have sufficient love for Him to accept His provision for us or do I trust my own will and discernment more.

    There are times when we must use our critical and analytic faculties but those times are rather less than we suspect.
    “Submit yourselves all ye nations for God is with us”

    Disobedience was the first sin and is the root of all others. Disobedience will be the last eradicated from the human heart. One reason Christ said in the Garden: Thy will, not mine be done.

  10. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    People everywhere abuse power.

    Frankly, the only sure way to overcome that abuse is to go above their heads so to speak.

    What is required is an absolute trust in the fact that He is with us and that He will provide for us.

    It is not easy, especially in the face of abuse, but it is possible.

  11. mary benton Avatar
    mary benton

    Many years ago, during my training as a psychologist, a supervisor told me to do something that I was quite certain was not the right thing for someone. He was the sort that would not entertain any view but his own. I did what he told me to do and an animal ended up dead as a result. (It could easily have been a child.)

    This experience taught me not to go against what I believe, if I still believe it after “listening carefully”. It is different to resist “obedience” when one believes that to obey would be wrong than to resist when obeying simply goes against one’s personal wishes or inclinations.

    I suspect that, in practice, we are not really disagreeing that much, Michael. I appreciate your reflections on the topic.

  12. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    As I mentioned earlier, in the world, it is much more difficult because of competing allegiances. The first rule is love for Christ. The context is always key.

  13. fatherstephen Avatar
    fatherstephen

    There are many roles and places in the world in which we practice some form of obedience: parents, boss, the civil authorities, etc. And, of course, for reasons of conscience, we sometimes disobey, and are right to do so.
    There is an ascetic practice in Orthodoxy, not universal, but tested by time and proven, of obedience to a Spirit-bearing elder, disclosure of thoughts, etc. It’s results in the spiritual life can be profound. In the wrong hands, a deluded elder, a psychologically wounded individual, the results can be disastrous. Brianchaninov’s The Arena discusses this very well. Some, reading books about this become develop a romanticize the spiritual life and “play” at obedience. A parish priest can start to demand obedience of his parishioners, etc. This always ends badly. The practice of radical obedience is real and true, but rare (and should be). Otherwise, we practice obedience in the context of proper respect and reverence, proper questioning of self, and daily repentance. Grace works with what is available.

  14. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    I have so many really wonderfu things happen to me because of obedience (not really the monastic type, but obedience none-the-less). And I have had many unfortunate things happen because of my disobedience and hardheartedness. The one time in my life when I was offered a small taste of monstic obedience, I ran from it. It was not something I was ready to undertake.

    No one I know in the world is called to the type of obedience to which monastics are called. We should not really confuse or compare to two. As Father rightly points out, anyone that demands obedience of lay people is almost certain to be wrong, as obedience is always freely given, it can never be coerced and is always based upon love.

    Monastic or lay, the basic principals are the same: Love of Christ, humility and actions of faith.

    I am living a miracle right now because I was actually obdient to my bishop even though I did not agree with the reason for the obedience and it was not a small thing.

    Now, I have a really good bishop whom I love and who loves his flock. That makes the obedience easier. Still,my critical faculties would have had me object, fight and give logical reasons why not. I did that for awhile, then just said, God’s will be done and trusted in the love of Christ in the Church, my bishop, my priest and my community.

    I had no logical knowledge of what the outcome would be but I was fully prepared to accept whatever it was knowing God would provide. The outcome was beyond anything I could have imagined.

    That single act of obedience 4 years ago contiunes to redound in my life with grace and blessings.

    If one is able to give obedience to God, out of love, blessings can come even through an abusive person blessings come. I have seen that happen too.

    However, each situation is different and requires prayer and one’s heart has to be in the right place.

  15. Angelman Avatar
    Angelman

    It is well-documented that children typically blame themselves rather than a parent who abused them. The child cannot assimilate that the protector became instead an attacker, so they consider themselves guilty and will defend the adult as blameless.

    Perhaps this could shed light on the Christian conception of mankind’s relationship with his Deity. God is never at fault, though he holds all authority and power. Rather, it is God’s helpless and hapless children who, failing to live up to his immense expectations, are forever held accountable.

    Some of the elders quoted in this thread recommend that one’s whole life should be oriented toward repentance, with the intent to discover just how thoroughly and completely one is governed by sin – in contrast to God’s wonderful purity.

    How similar this seems to the often unconscious complexes that affect many people’s sense of self as a result of childhood neglect or abuse. They perceive themselves as essentially defective and inadequate, profoundly lacking in whatever is required to be a whole person, and seldom grasp how this state was affected or inculcated by parents.

    The story of Adam and Eve in Genesis no doubt speaks profoundly of various metaphysical realities, but as an illustration of parent/child dynamics it is far from admirable. The father who wants others to forgive cannot do so himself, but casts his children out of the garden for a single infraction of his ordnance (Later, he who is to command “Thou shalt not kill” murders the entire human race – except for lucky Noah and his sons).

    We cannot make our fathers not be our fathers, or cause their wounding of us to be gone. But we can try to stop blaming ourselves for what our fathers, human or otherwise, have done.

  16. Dino Avatar
    Dino

    Angleman,
    those are the thoughts and words of human reasoning, but they never eventually lead anywhere other than (where the thoughts and reasoning of human and demonic fallen reasoning always led), the “labyrinth” of no way out…

    You will never get any answers that way and not a single individual who pursued that method to -all the way to the end- ever did. The persons who pursued the ‘other’ method, that of repetance however, (not all perhaps but at least some – without a shadow of a “unconscious complexes”), came to know God; they did not speculate on what He might be like, they came to know Him directly, and they found the answers and understanding (the understanding of the “elders quoted in this thread”)

  17. fatherstephen Avatar
    fatherstephen

    Angelman,
    It’s an interesting to think about Genesis, but misses the point of the story – and the insight into the human condition and into the God who created us.

  18. Angelman Avatar
    Angelman

    Insight into the human condition and the God who created us is the intention of the comment.

  19. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    Angeman, the trouble is that the foundation of your observation is so far outside the testimony of Holy Scripture, Patristic commentaries, the lives of the saints and (for what it is worth) my own experience as to be worthless.

    It seems to me to come from the “God is a cosmic sadist” school of thought.

    That is simply untrue. I know the mindset induced by abusive parents and what we are talking about bears absolutely no resemblance.

    On a simple, non – theological level God as a parent uses natural and logical consequences to teach us and foster our growth and maturity.

  20. mary benton Avatar
    mary benton

    Angelman-

    I agree with you about child abuse but am quite puzzled as to how that gets linked to Christianity. There is much discussion on this blog about the problems with literal reading of the Bible, especially Old Testament. I don’t know if you have read these posts but I recommend them.

    One clarification I’d like to offer, because if represents some growth in my own thinking is with regard to repentance. I do not see repentance as a continuous review of how bad and sinful I am. Rather, it is an openness to understanding what it is that keeps me from complete loving union with God (in which state I learn how very good I am, living in His light).

    This openness does not come easily though – it is hard work.
    But it is also joyful work, as it is like the lover who wants only to learn how to be more fully loving.

  21. Lasseter Avatar

    There is a great deal, of course, that could be said about your comment, Angelman, and about the “pushback” (as they call it on the World Wide Internet) that you would receive (or to some degree already have received) from other commentators here, but I don’t care about getting into most of that. I’ll just take this one comment of yours:

    The story of Adam and Eve in Genesis no doubt speaks profoundly of various metaphysical realities, but as an illustration of parent/child dynamics it is far from admirable.

    This is a meritorious observation. I have long found it problematical to liken God too closely to a parent in any way that we are otherwise familiar with. In this I do not mean to say that I think we should not call him Father in Heaven, but I do mean to say that some special emphasis belongs on the Heaven part. He’s not a human father. If he were, he’s be a detestable one by any standard we can comprehend (cue the broad comments against human reasoning).

    Where one chooses to go with such an observation–deeper into Orthooxy or off into atheism or any of a host of other places–I’ll not argue for. Nonetheless, I think the point you made is a good one. Likening God too much to an earthly father charts a perilous course.

  22. dino Avatar
    dino

    Mary Benton,
    that is an excellent observation on repentance…

  23. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    Yes, Mary excellent observation . It is an opening to God’s love, a healing that allows freedom to grow into who I am. It is the direct opposite of abuse, at least in the Orthodox Church.

  24. Angelman Avatar
    Angelman

    Thanks for the responses to my post. Yes, I can see that likening God to a earthly father is perilous. Since I carry a personal burden in that area it is very easy for my rebellion and pride to manifest around it.

    God loves the world, and life’s goal is to become aligned with that Love.

  25. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    May God heal your wounds. I know from personal experience the difficulties that come from the confusion of our earthly father with God and the abuse that comes with that- though never physical.

    I finally began to realize that I was expecting too much of my dad and too little of God. It was then I could begin to forgive and appreciate what what my dad did give me.

  26. Michael Bauman Avatar
    Michael Bauman

    I am frequently reminded of the truth that the play writes, Lawrence and Lee penned in their play “Inherit the Wind”: “God created man in His image and man, being a gentleman, returned the compliment.”

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