To Live a Mortal Life

In Peter Jackson’s, “The Fellowship of the Ring,” Arwen (an elf) says to Aragorn (whom she loves): “I choose a mortal life.” In Tolkien’s fantasy world, she must give up her elven immortality in order to wed a human. She chooses a mortal life and now she, like the man she loves, will eventually grow old and die.

We do not choose a mortal life. We are born with one. And this is deeply significant.

In Western theology, there is frequently an assertion that human beings are born with “original sin,” which, in its classical form, means that we are born with guilt inherited from Adam and Eve. Additionally, it asserts that we are born as sinners. We are not innocent nor are we good from the moment of our existence.

This is a theological assertion that takes a variety of forms. I have heard it in non-theological settings. For example, I have heard it as a basis for political reasoning and the battle against crime. The world is a dangerous place.

For some, this understanding is bound up with the “fall,” with humanity’s sin in the Garden. We are criminals, living out the just reward for what has been done.

This is not the Orthodox faith.

Rather, we teach that human beings are “mortal.” This is specifically what is described in Genesis. We are not cursed with a “fallen nature.” Rather we die: “In the day you eat of it, you shall die.” And, the world in which we now struggle is a world that has been “made subject to futility” in “bondage to corruption.” Creation dies as well. If we must speak of a “fallen nature,” then we should understand that sin and death are like a disease at work in us. We have not become the disease though it permeates our lives.

We live a mortal life. And there are consequences that come with that fact. There is this:

that through death he [Christ] might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil, and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery.” (Heb. 2:14-15)

This specifically cites our spiritual bondage (sin) to the fear of death. The reality of death, in a myriad of small ways, is a moment-by-moment form of bondage. We chase pleasure and flee from pain. We dislike pain as a protection against a pain-induced death. We prefer pleasure because it doesn’t feel like death. Of course, pleasure is often little more than a disguised form of death.

With that being said, living a mortal life requires something beyond the pain/pleasure mechanisms of our bodies. It requires a level of reason and the discipline we call virtue. We have to learn to pay attention and make decisions, including some that involve a measure of pain. In Orthodoxy, this is known as asceticism, a word for athletic struggle.

A child must be taught, not because of original sin, but because he/she is mortal. Children must learn to look both ways before crossing a street and to eat some foods that are not made of sugar. They must learn to do some measure of math and to nurture the human skill of reading. They must learn how to tell the good from the bad and how to choose the good. Every culture on earth has known this to some degree. Without virtue (the ability to consistently choose and do good) a whole culture falters. If you think that we are failing to do this latter thing, then you’ve probably noticed that our culture has been faltering.

Living a mortal life means learning to live it well. It also means teaching those who will come after you to live it well. It also means learning to die well. There is a saying among monastics, “If you learn to die before you die, then you won’t have to die when you die.” It is a play on words that underscores the mortality of our existence.

St. Benedict, in his Rule, said, “Always keep death before your eyes.” This is not a morbid monastic practice, but an honest human manner of living. Modernity, the culture that permeates our world, is death-denying. It can’t even manage a decent funeral with the body present. We have a cult of youth, striving to remain young, look young, act young, until aging catches up with us and we are shuttled off to the places where we hide (and ignore) those who are sick and dying. This supports a marketing scheme that feeds on those “who through fear of death are subject to lifelong slavery.” Little wonder it is so successful.

Christian asceticism accepts that we are mortal and must live a mortal life. It sees a life beyond mortality in the Resurrection of Christ, but, like Christ, it chooses mortality for the sake of immortality: it tramples down death by death. It tramples down mortality by mortality.

In my early 70s, mortality sits at the table with me in social gatherings. It’s not unusual to fall into conversations about choosing where and how to be buried (it’s a more popular topic than I had expected). Living a mortal life carries thoughts of how to die well. Living a virtuous life carries thoughts of how to die-to-self well. Mortality entails humility.

Oddly, living a mortal life entails hope. While secularism places its hope in medically controlling a certain future, Christian mortality is grounded in the hope of eternity in the life of Christ. Asceticism is more than practicing a mindful honesty regarding death. It also allows the light of eternity to shine on our works.

Live like you’re going to die. Die like you’re going to live.

Glory to God.

I am appending a very hopeful thought from a mouse who understood his mortality (Reepicheep in The Dawn Treader)

“My own plans are made. While I can, I sail east in the Dawn Treader. When she fails me, I paddle east in my coracle. When she sinks, I shall swim east with my four paws. And when I can swim no longer, if I have not reached Aslan’s country, or shot over the edge of the world into some vast cataract, I shall sink with my nose to the sunrise.”

About Fr. Stephen Freeman

Fr. Stephen is a retired Archpriest of the Orthodox Church in America. He is also author of Everywhere Present: Christianity in a One-Storey Universe, and Face to Face: Knowing God Beyond Our Shame, as well as the Glory to God podcast series on Ancient Faith Radio.



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18 responses to “To Live a Mortal Life”

  1. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    How does one die well?

  2. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    The traditional Orthodox prayers asks: “A Christian ending to our life, painless, unashamed, and peaceful, and a good defense before the dread judgment seat of Christ.” I think it means to die in the faith, in communion with God, at peace with others (in communion with them as is possible), having made a good confession. That’s the “ending.” I think we are making such an ending every day as we seek to live a life in communion with God, people, and the planet.

    Living with mortality – the humility that embraces the reality of our mortal existence – is an important part of it. In the course of the years, as I’ve ministered to those who are preparing for death, I’ve always been deeply impressed by those who did so with the eyes “wide-open.”

  3. Nicole in TX Avatar
    Nicole in TX

    Beautiful, on target, healing! Thank you Father!!!

  4. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Matthew,
    In light of your question, I’ve added this to the article:

    I am appending a very hopeful thought from a mouse who understood his mortality (Reepicheep in The Dawn Treader)

    “My own plans are made. While I can, I sail east in the Dawn Treader. When she fails me, I paddle east in my coracle. When she sinks, I shall swim east with my four paws. And when I can swim no longer, if I have not reached Aslan’s country, or shot over the edge of the world into some vast cataract, I shall sink with my nose to the sunrise.”

  5. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Thanks so much Fr. Stephen.

    Dread judgment seat???

  6. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Matthew,
    “Dread judgment seat.” You should look at my article, “The Erotic Language of Prayer.” The language of the Liturgy has an extreme quality. We could say, “Awesome” Judgment Seat. But also, “Dread, or fearful” work. It is poetic. “Dread” in this case signals a boundary – a moment in which things are set in their proper position or place – we are judged. Respectfully, I feel a bit of dread when I think of it.

    On the other hand, if we presently carry soul-wounds that are rattled by such language, then I suggest that we “put it on a shelf.” When we encounter such things, pray, “Have mercy on me, Lord, and comfort me.”

  7. Justin Avatar
    Justin

    Fr Stephen and Matthew,

    The quote of Reepicheep and the question of dying well has reminded me of this, from the Three Youths (Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego):

    “We have no need to defend ourselves from you concerning this matter. For our God whom we serve is in the heavens, and is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will rescue us from your hands, O king. But if he does not, be assured of this, O king, that we will not serve your gods, nor worship the image which you have set up.”

    ISTM this is the example, par excellence, of dying well and having a good defense before the dread judgment seat of Christ. The Synaxarion has example after example of the martyrs following suit.

  8. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Thanks Fr. Stephen

  9. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Justin,
    Indeed! It’s one of the reasons we read the lives in the Synaxarion. We have example after example of those who have run the race and finished well. My father, near the end of his life, said to me, “I feel like I’ve wasted so much! I did not become Orthodox until I was 79 years old.” I said to him, “It doesn’t matter nearly how well we ran the race, so much as how we finish.” In truth, he was always running that race – though his route was quite circuitous. He was working in the cotton fields of S.C. at age four, with a fair amount of violence around him. He endured a lot. He finished the race. I think he stared down more than a few evil kings in his life, even as the flames roared around him.

    Got grant us such grace!

  10. Bernard Avatar
    Bernard

    Thank you Father for this thoughtful and insightful post. My question is regarding the far eastern traditions of Buddhism and Hinduism and their concept of reincarnation. The concept has some appeal to me. If a person is called to the path of salvation leading to Theosis and they die not having attained the goal what happens then? Has their life been a complete waste? What about a young person, a child who hasn’t even had the opportunity to seek salvation? What happens to them if they die young? I would be most grateful for your thoughts.
    Many thanks
    Bernard K

  11. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Does finishing the race of the mortal life well include having to become Orthodox?

  12. Dee of Sts Herman and Olga Avatar
    Dee of Sts Herman and Olga

    Matthew, above all else, love one another. Even your enemies. This is a tall order, which could inevitably lead to personal martyrdom. I’m working on it. If I can set enough of my passions aside to let even a little of Christ’s love into my heart to love my brothers and sisters (even those who would do harm) as Christ loves them, it is my hope that I will have finished well.

    Follow Him.

    This would be as close as I think I could get to emulating the three youths mentioned above.

  13. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Thanks Dee.

  14. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Matthew,
    I agree with Dee’s comment.

  15. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Bernard,
    Orthodox Christianity holds that a human person is unique – and a “one-time” event, if you will. In the life of salvation, we move towards ever greater union/communion with God, in and through love. Equally, it holds that God is love. How we move and grow in Him and towards Him beyond death is never fully spelled-out in formal Orthodox teaching. We pray for those who have died, entrusting them to the mercy of God.

    There is, however, a variety of opinions within the saints, and stories in abundance. I believe that we continue to grow, to move towards God. St. Paul speaks of a cleansing and refining after death. That has a strong appeal for me. There is also some teaching in Scripture that would indicate a revealing of a hidden greatness not witnessed in this life.

    The funeral of a child in Orthodoxy is quite moving. We do not pray for the forgiveness of their sins, as we do for adults at a funeral. Rather there is an emphasis on their innocence. Our grief in such a setting is great – but not for any failure to have achieved “theosis.” That term is bandied about a great deal on the internet – but actually comes up quite rarely in the liturgical texts of the Church, if at all.

    There is much that the Church passes over in reverent silence – a silence that is wrapped in stillness and the confidence that God is good and merciful and can be trusted to do “abundantly above all that we could ask or think.”

  16. Justin Avatar
    Justin

    Matthew,

    (Speaking only for myself.) This conversation, here and elsewhere, has been in the forefront of my life over the past days. I have been brought to a realization:

    I am a moralist who believes that life is gained by following the rules. Life is ruled by legalism and merit.

    I was raised in this philosophy, the church I was brought up in held this to be true, and called it “Grace.” The world where I live, work, and keep my family is steeped in this philosophical milieu. It is wholly against Christ.

    I am Orthodox because there is where I found Jesus, Himself. Everywhere else I had been prior–and I do mean *everywhere*–talked about Jesus, sang about Jesus, preached about Jesus, theologized about Jesus, moralized about what Jesus wants me to do and act. But no where was I brought to or introduced to the person of Jesus, His heart, His love, His way.

    Finishing this race, finishing this life well, is finishing it with Jesus. If you have found Jesus and are following Him where you are and in the community you are with, who am I to say anything about it, except what Dee said above–“Follow Him.” You have enough people on this board and elsewhere to help you discern Him from the fakes, Jesus from the philosophy, the Person from the rules.

    Jesus told St Peter, “What is that to you? You follow me.”

    I repeat the answer to you, for what it’s worth: Follow Him.
    May it be blessed.

  17. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Thanks Fr. Stephen.

  18. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Thanks Justin.

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