Are We Connected?

How connected are we? Do your actions, thoughts, feelings, have an effect on me even if I am unaware (or on the other side of the world)? Is my existence bound within the existence of other human beings, or are we simply sharing the same planet for a period of time?

Connections between people, particularly of a spiritual nature, were declared to be mere superstitions in the march of modern rationalism. To believe in connections between people came to be seen as flawed – similar to a belief in an outer space filled with a “heavenly ether.” The rise of the mechanical universe displaced all ideas of true connections between people (or between people and things). Individuals became discrete, separate entities. The only possible effects that were allowed in such a universe were direct physical effects (which would include sound and the various forms of light), or psychological effects (how I react within myself to outside stimuli). Cause and effect were thus severely limited.

There have been some attempts within the modern world to suggest connections beyond this mechanical/psychological model. Depth Psychology (Jungian), has argued for a shared, collective unconscious, a common mind in which we all participate. The judgment of mainstream science is that such ideas are simply “kooky.”

But, the question remains: are we connected? Is our relationship to one another nothing more than the figments of our own neuroses and the violence of others’ actions?

The New Testament clearly contradicts the assumptions of the modern model:

But God composed the body, having given greater honor to that part which lacks it, that there should be no schism in the body, but that the members should have the same care for one another. And if one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; or if one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it. (1 Cor. 12:24-26)

The word rendered “composed” (συνεκέρασεν) in St. Paul’s thoughts on the body of Christ has a more accurate meaning of “mixed together.” “Composed” is not an incorrect translation, but our own weak reading of the word fails to capture the word’s original sense. St. Paul is making the point that God’s creation of the human body is precisely an interconnected/mixed entity. It is this “mixed” entity that most fits the Apostle’s thoughts on the nature of our life as the Church. The hand cannot say to the foot, “I have no need of you,” for far greater reasons than simple cooperation. The “members” (“parts”) of the body do not exist in a strictly distinct manner: they have something of a “mixed” existence. So, too, are Christians (and humanity as a whole – for the Church is not other than human, but the display of what it properly means to be human).

Today’s increased “wholistic” practice of medicine has renewed an emphasis on the interconnectedness of the systems within the human body. It is only convenience that makes medical science label something as one system or another – for the body is a single whole.

St. Paul takes this “wholistic” or “mixed” understanding and applies it to our human existence: “If one member suffers, we all suffer…” This same understanding, in varying forms, is common in the teachings of the spiritual fathers of the Church. The Elder Thaddeus offers this observation:

Everything, both good and evil, comes from our thoughts. Our thoughts become reality. Even today we can see that all of creation, everything that exists on the earth and in the cosmos, is nothing but Divine thought made material in time and space. We humans were created in the image of God. Mankind was given a great gift, but we hardly understand that. God’s energy and life is in us, but we do not realize it. Neither do we understand that we greatly influence others with our thoughts. We can be very good or very evil, depending on the kind of thoughts and desires we breed. If our thoughts are kind, peaceful, and quiet, turned only toward good, then we also influence ourselves and radiate peace all around us—in our family, in the whole country, everywhere. This is true not only here on earth, but in the cosmos as well. When we labor in the fields of the Lord, we create harmony. Divine harmony, peace, and quiet spread everywhere. However, when we breed negative thoughts, that is a great evil. When there is evil in us, we radiate it among our family members and wherever we go. So you see, we can be very good or very evil. If that’s the way it is, it is certainly better to choose good! Destructive thoughts destroy the stillness within, and then we have no peace. Our Thoughts Determine Our Lives: the Life and Teachings of Elder Thaddeus of Vitovnica (Kindle Locations 615-623). St. Herman of Alaska Brotherhood. Kindle Edition.

The Elder is not suggesting that our thoughts have a profound psychological effect on those around us. He is rooted in St. Paul’s understanding of συνεκέρασεν – our connectedness. We are not each a separate world, but all part of one world. Just as it has become popular to acknowledge the so-called “butterfly effect” discussed in chaos theory (a hurricane’s beginning is effected even by the flutter of a butterfly’s wings on the other side of the earth), so we should recognize that the whole of our lives – physical, spiritual, mental, etc. – is equally part of a whole.

Our cultural assumptions make us insensitive to the connections of our lives. The modern model of discrete existence supports the fantasy of a highly individualized freedom that is a foundational notion of modern consumer economies. We imagine that there are “victimless” crimes or “privatized actions.” We say to ourselves that certain behaviors are without consequence and effect no one but ourselves. This same fantasy makes it very difficult for us to understand the limitations of freedom and the inherent responsibilities of human existence. The results are a culture that is increasingly dysfunctional.

For Christians this individualized concept of the self undermines many of the primary realities of the faith. The Church cannot be rightly understood as a voluntary association. We are Baptized “into the Body of Christ.” The modern concept of the individual runs deeply contrary to Scriptural teaching on the nature of the Christian life. The sacraments, whose foundations rest within a world in which true communion and participation are possible, become more and more foreign to the individualized Christian experience. The sacraments are either deeply minimized (even to the point of extinction) or re-interpreted in voluntaristic terms. It is this re-interpretation of the sacraments that undergirds the modern notion of “open communion,” or “Eucharistic hospitality.” The exclusion of persons from the Cup of Christ is seen as an insult, a denial of their self-defined Christian identification. I have been told, “Who are you to say that I should not be allowed to come to communion?” However, “Individual communion” is an oxymoron.

The teaching of the faith regarding Personhood requires an acceptance of the connectedness of existence. Human sin tends towards fragmentation, disintegration and a radical individualism. The ultimate individual existence is the one that refuses love. The presence of the “other” is perceived as a burden and limitation. Rebirth in Christ is an entrance into a connected existence – into existence as communion. The “other” is not a burden – it is utterly required for true existence.

In the story of human creation, Adam, alone (before the creation of Eve), is described as “not good.” We were not created for aloneness. But the creation of Eve is described in terms that go further than “other.” Had “other” been the only requirement, then any of the animals whom God brought to Adam would have been fitting for the purpose. But Adam’s exclamation at Eve’s creation is in the language of connection: “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh!” The “other” is also, somehow, my self.

The daily discovery of the “true self” that marks the path of salvation, is the fruit of love. It is the constant realization that my life is not my own, but is rather found both within and somehow outside myself. Or perhaps it is more correct to say that “outside myself” is something of a false concept. We must say “something of a false concept,” for the true self is not the loss of identity, a blending of the self with all else: it is communion.

The sacraments, then, are not discrete actions of the Church designed to enhance our spiritual experience: they are revelations of the way of life. For in every case, the sacraments are the life of communion, whether Ordination or Eucharist, Baptism, Chrismation, Matrimony, etc. It is for this reason that we can observe that “the whole creation is a sacrament.”

This same communion describes the means, the path, and the life of salvation. Earlier discussions on the blog have ventured to suggest a communion that reaches even into the realm of hell. Communion is not a quality or an activity of life – it is the very essence of life – its sine qua non. For this reason the faithful are taught to pray for the departed, to know and share in the prayers of the saints, and to believe that we are helped by their prayers and they benefit from ours. In such things we are not being taught how to pray, we are being taught how to live.

In Genesis, when God proposes the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, Abraham intercedes. “Will you destroy the righteous with the wicked?” And he proceeds to argue for increasingly smaller numbers of the righteous for whose sake God will spare the unrighteous. It was said at one time that there were three righteous men on account of whose prayers God spared the world. It is a Biblical notion. Our connectedness is our life.

 

 

 

About Fr. Stephen Freeman

Fr. Stephen is a retired Archpriest of the Orthodox Church in America. He is also author of Everywhere Present: Christianity in a One-Storey Universe, and Face to Face: Knowing God Beyond Our Shame, as well as the Glory to God podcast series on Ancient Faith Radio.



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22 responses to “Are We Connected?”

  1. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Hello Fr. Stephen.

    When we close communion to those who are not Orthodox (or not Catholic), are we then diminishing communion and interconnectedness between Christians? Also, what message does it send about the communion and interconnectedness of all human beings (regardless of creed) when we close people from the Eucharist?

  2. Lucas Galdino Avatar

    Dear Father, I was wondering what you have to say on the subject of the origin of the soul.

    Before I converted to Orthodoxy, Heaven, as the perpetuation of my own, separate, individual experience, sounded like… Pure hell. Participation in God, Theosis, feels like something entirely different, and also more practical, that I can experience day to day if I apply myself, in moments of blissful prayer where, as Blake would say, one could “hold infinity in the palm of your hand and eternity in an hour”.

    Now, there is one thing that troubles me, especially as a health student, which is the “making” of the soul. The body is built from material that pre-existed, was consumed, metabolized and integrated into one’s body. It sounds to me so logical that the soul, similarly, would thus arise from whatever preconscious “material” would exist for the soul. A “breath of God”, so to say. Some scientists, like Dr. Michael Levin, are beginning to push such theories for the formation of consciousness, based on the concept that a rudimentary, sleeping form of consciousness exists in the simplest components and binds together into unified consciousness. It’s a model that helps me a lot bridge my faith and my studies. The consequences such a model would have on the biological definition of “life”, though, are immense, as Dr. Levin himself often notes. And I fear it could open a can of worms towards all kind of weird spirituality.

    What are your thoughts on all this? What do the Fathers say on the formation of the soul.

    Kind regards,

    Lucas

  3. Olya Avatar
    Olya

    Dear Reverend Father: i totally agree with connectedness – how can i having sinned so greatly in my life – tho i was baptised Orthodox – due to environmental influences – i went to search for “Truth” & now i see my heart full of wrong & false beliefs – how can i still pray for others – it seems that my prayers cause more harm! I returned to Church & thru the prayers of Bishop & Deacon & whole Church i saw myself recovering – still i fear praying for others to not influence their lives- please forgive my plea – still suffering – but still i try to fill my heart with the love God has shown me! With gratitute to God for advice offered!

  4. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Matthew,
    To have “boundaries” is an essential part of connectedness – else we would simply consume one another (like the demons try to do). We do not have “closed communion” (that’s a 20th century Protestant term). We have communion to which the whole world is invited – with proper boundaries that preserve its integrity and allow it to be a proper tool of healing and not just a “consumable.”

    I think we presume that the only thing involved in the Eucharist is eating and drinking. This, for example, is not even true for the Orthodox. We are required to have made proper preparation (confession, repentance, fasting, etc.). But it also presumes Baptism, Chrismation, and the loyalty and commitment involved in all of those things. What approaches the Cup at any given Liturgy is something whole – not just another consumer. The so-called “open communion” of many Protestant Churches is simply Christianity without boundaries, and Eucharist that has been reduced to the level of the merely private.

    I always draw a parallel between Communion and Marriage (which is a very biblical parallel). The union of husband and wife comes with all kinds of requirements, else it becomes a demonic consuming of one another.

    We are connected – to our well-being – not our private being.

    That modernity has sought to destroy boundaries suggests its origin.

  5. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Lucas,
    I think that the general thought of the Fathers is that the soul is immaterial (which is not to say it is “nothing”). It is the creation by God at the moment of conception. We have very little language to speak of immaterial existence. Give it time.

  6. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Olya,
    It is always healthy to pray for others – simply commending them to God and to His good will for their lives. We do not truly know what they “need” (which is often not the same thing as we would imagine). They are part of our lives. Love them.

  7. Cynthia Avatar
    Cynthia

    Recently I had gone to visit a friend with cancer. She lived in Georgia and I live in Texas. After I left she began a very quick downward spiral.
    I knew she had moved to a hospice clinic and was very weak. As I sat praying for her and her niece the evening she passed, I had a very strong impression that the Holy Spirit was around me and that his presence in the room with my friend and her niece could be felt. I texted the niece (not a believer) that the Holy Spirit was there with the two of them.
    I received a phone call in about 45 minutes that my dear friend of fifty years had just passed on.
    I find that the most I can do is be a conduit for him. Thank you, Lord, that you would use me at all!

  8. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Cynthia,
    May her memory be eternal…

  9. Hal Freeman Avatar
    Hal Freeman

    Thank you for a break from the radical individualism in which some of us grew up. I remember even many of the hymns we sang in church when I was a kid started with the word, “I”. The congregation was just a bunch of individuals.

  10. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Thanks so much Fr. Stephen. Has modernity really sought to destroy boundaries? I hear so many secularists talking about the importance of setting healthy boundaries.

  11. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Matthew,
    Of course, secularism will speak about boundaries – when it serves its own interests. But, take a look at what has happened with marriage, sex, gender, nationality, etc., – pretty much the panoply of what is traditional and natural – these have been swept aside in favor of other ersatz, newly-minted ideological boundaries. Modernity is a religion (it’s not about the technology) that devours its own. And every time it makes us sick, it suggests the remedy to be yet more of the same.

    Secularity would be in favor of “healthy boundaries” – but both words are meaningless in and of themselves. It’s when you pull back the curtain and see what is actually being peddled that you realize what is going on.

  12. Dee of Sts Herman and Olga Avatar
    Dee of Sts Herman and Olga

    Matthew,
    From modernist perspective a ‘healthy boundary’ maintains individuality. It’s more often than not still locked in modern individualism.

  13. Dee of Sts Herman and Olga Avatar
    Dee of Sts Herman and Olga

    Father, you took the words right out of my mouth and elaborated fully!

    (I didn’t have your comment available when I posted mine)

  14. Dee of Sts Herman and Olga Avatar
    Dee of Sts Herman and Olga

    Matthew,
    For these reasons about what Father has described in the Eucharist, I find it egregious that Roman Catholic priests tell their flock it’s ok to receive the Orthodox communion. Father says it’s just a mistake. But unfortunately the behavior appears to be more deliberate than accident in my environs.

    The priest of my parish explicitly tells the congregation who is allowed to receive communion. Yet I’m told by my Roman Catholic friends that their priests insist otherwise, suggesting that my priest is in error. Please forgive me for bringing this up. But such experiences happen regularly in my environs because of the dissemination of false information.

    Regardless of these interpretations, I also believe there can be true spiritual communion between brothers and sisters in Christ without having to breach the boundaries of the Eucharist. These would be relationships formed by God.

    My beloved is not baptized. But I truly believe our souls are connected in the love of God.

  15. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Thanks Fr. Stephen and Dee.

  16. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Dee,
    I think I’m in something of a “dark conspiracy” mood this morning. I beginning to think that “individualism” is a complete ruse – that behind it is a dark will that wants to separate us from the living communion that is our life – so that it can devour us one-by-one.

    CS Lewis, in his Screwtape Letters (written from one demon to another), posits a desire to devour as the root demonic desire. In the Great Canon of St. Andrew of Crete (Ode 4, Thursday), we pray not to be eaten by the demons…just like St. Peter (1Pet. 5:8) speaks of the enemy seeking to devour us like a prowling lion. It’s been bouncing around in my thoughts today.

  17. Esmée Noelle Covey Avatar
    Esmée Noelle Covey

    It strikes me that natural disasters remind us of just how interconnected and interdependent we all are on one another. We have been experiencing another wildfire where I am living, and I have been in awe watching the firefighters and other first responders come together to do their jobs. I am transfixed by the enormous water dropping helicopters that have been flying over my town every five minutes non-stop for the past 5 days and nights. I think not just about the people needed to do this dangerous and important work in the moment, but also of those who have contributed over the years to the invention if such amazingly incredible machinery! It feels like there has been an increasing number of natural disasters over the past 10 years, though that perception could simply be a product of the internet throwing them in my face, but I wonder – if true – if God is perhaps allowing these traumatic events to remind us just how much we all really do need each other and to offer us opportunities to get outside our little self-absorbed and artificially self-contained worlds and force us to remember we have neighbors that we need to love in very practical ways.

  18. Dee of Sts Herman and Olga Avatar
    Dee of Sts Herman and Olga

    Dear Father,
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I truly believe there is something to what you’re perceiving. For good reasons for the health of our souls we have been taught to fast and to lovingly embrace what the fast is to our hearts and souls, turning our eyes to God as our food.

  19. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Dee, Matthew,
    There is, indeed, poor to false understandings among Catholic clergy about the boundaries between Rome and Orthodoxy. As far as Rome is concerned, there are no boundaries – which is a refusal to actually listen to and respect what the Orthodox Church teaches – and can mislead unwary Orthodox Christians. I had been an Orthodox priest for only 2 weeks, when, attending the Catholic funeral of one of my hospice patients, the priest came down from the altar, and publicly offered me a stole and invited me to concelebrate Mass with him! I politely refused – and said, “I’ve only been an Orthodox priest for 2 weeks and you’d have me defrocked before the end of the day!” He “meant well,” I suppose. But he clearly had no understanding of the reality.

    From an Orthodox perspective, it is often how Catholic ecumenism is seen – as an effort to politely devour us and just welcome us into their world. It puts the onus on the Orthodox to sound mean and uncharitable – simply because our boundaries are ignored and others are told they don’t exist.

  20. Christa Avatar
    Christa

    Oh! Thanks be to God for such words! Such life giving love and hope!

  21. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Fr. Stephen and Dee,

    Do the Orthodox accept a Catholic baptism? If yes, then why is the same acceptance not extended to the Eucharist?

  22. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Matthew,
    For one, they are not the same thing. And I’ll explain.

    The Orthodox do not “accept” Baptism outside the Orthodox Church, as such. Rather, following the teaching of St. Basil the Great on the matter, Orthodox extends economy wherever possible and receives those who are in schism in a variety of manners: some by Confession; some by Confession and Chrismation; some by Baptism, as the circumstances vary. However, these means of reception are all done “by economy” rather than as a declaration of “validity” or “acceptance.” It is a mercy – so that – it makes return to the fullnes of the Church easier rather than more difficult.

    There is some variety of practice in extending this economy across the various jurisdictions.

    As to Holy Communion, this is not a matter of initiation, or a gateway. It is the completion and fullness. If someone is not actually in communion – in mind, heart, belief, discipline, etc., with the Orthodox Church – then why would they want to receive communion in the Orthodox Church? It would be somehow separating that communion from the Church itself. In point of fact – the Eucharist is the Church and the Church is the Eucharist. Again, all are welcome to the Cup, but they have to approach it in a true union – which would mean actually becoming Orthodox.

    But I understand the question you’ve asked. Holy Baptism is treated differently for the reasons I’ve stated. This was/is the practice of the Church from its early centuries. I’ll also say that sometimes the Orthodox argue about this. Some of us are right. 🙂

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