Like A Refugee

It was June 13, 1940. A young Vladimir Lossky (later to be author of The Mystical Theology of the Eastern Church) was making his way on foot with the crowds from Paris who were fleeing from a victorious, invading German army. The invasion was sudden, surprising, and completely overwhelming in its success. The entire operation took no more than six weeks. Lossky kept a diary. The small book, Seven Days on the Roads of France (SVS Press, 2012), is one of the more profound reflections on a singular moment in history. It is well worth the read. On the first day he observes:

The Germans are in Paris; perhaps they will get to the Loire, to the Garonne, everywhere. But France is not conquered yet; the ‘human’ war has only just begun. Perhaps it will last for a century. As during that other great period of troubles that we call the Hundred Years’ War, a period which nevertheless saw the birth of a new France.

“Perhaps it will last a century.” Of course, we know that Hitler’s Third Reich would be defeated by May of 1945, Paris having been liberated in August of 1944. Nonetheless, “…perhaps it will last for a century,” is a sobering thought.

We live in a day and time that many ponder as the “end” of Western Civilization. I suspect that it is not the end, but merely the continuing evolution of modernity, a philosophy and period of time that has sought for several hundred years to kill its patrimony. History never “ends” so much as it fades in and out moving towards a direction that is in the hands of God.

I read of another group of refugees (of a sort), in a snippet sent to me by a friend. It is a passage from an article in the New York Times Magazine, entitled, “Why Is the Loneliness Epidemic So Hard to Cure?” (August 28, 2024). The article cited a lecture in which the virtues of religious communities were praised. It posed a different observation, however.

“I’m not suggesting that we should become more religious, but I want to just suggest to you that religious communities are a place where adults engage kids, stand for moral values, engage kids in big moral questions, where there’s a fusion of a moral life and a spiritual life,” Weissbourd said at a talk held in March at the Harvard Kennedy School of Government.

“A sense that you have obligations to your ancestors and to your descendants, where there is a structure for dealing with grief and loss,” he went on, repeating his opening caveat. “I feel urgently like we have to figure out how to reproduce those aspects of religion in secular life.”

It seemed to me that the speaker was identifying spiritual refugees battling the anomie of the modern world. I appreciated his great regard for religious communities, though I suspect that many fail to fulfill even the functions he describes.

It serves as a reminder to me that when something is lost, more than what we imagine to be the “main” thing is missing. There are so many “small” things that constitute the full life and culture of the Church. The Reformation abandoned the richness of Medieval culture, and replaced it with a sterile, simplified ideology that has clearly been unable to withstand onslaught of secularism. As Orthodox Christians, we must remember that we conserve more than the “doctrines” of the Church. The very texture of Orthodox life is itself the embodied memory of the Greater life.

During his flight from Paris, Lossky thought about the nature of the fight ahead. He wrote:

…”war is not waged for absolute values. This has been the mistake of all so-called ‘religious’ wars, and the main cause of the atrocities associated with them. Nor is it waged for relative values that one endeavors to turn into absolutes, nor yet for abstract concepts which have been lent a religious character…”

Lossky was ready to fight and was trying to find somewhere he could volunteer. It is interesting to me that among the “relative values” he described were a man’s “native soil, his land, his country.” He said that such relative values must not be seen as absolutes – even as you take up arms to defend them.

For the refugees fleeing Paris (or the many other places abandoned by so many), it is quite likely that most imagined their losses as absolutes – that it would be impossible to live without them. This is where our lives as Christian refugees must differ. Christianity makes a classical distinction between the things that are eternal and the things that are temporal. The temporal is always passing away. If it’s not the Nazis taking over your capital, it’s someone else making “unbearable” changes. Yet, the eternal abides. The Kingdom that resides in the heart, made manifest in the life of the Church and her sacraments, abides. It is the treasure of every refugee. If we rightly understood our life in the Church we would not lament our role as refugees. Stanley Hauerwas, back in the 1980s, famously described Christians as “resident aliens.” We live here, but this is not our home.

From Hebrews (11:9-10):

“By faith [Abraham] dwelt in the land of promise as in a foreign country, dwelling in tents with Isaac and Jacob, the heirs with him of the same promise; for he waited for the city which has foundations, whose builder and maker is God.”

Our “land of promise” is not a renewal of Western Civilization, nor any number of imagined fixes to this world. It is a city that has true foundations – built by God. Stay on the road. Walk like a refugee.

About Fr. Stephen Freeman

Fr. Stephen is a retired Archpriest of the Orthodox Church in America, Pastor Emeritus of St. Anne Orthodox Church in Oak Ridge, Tennessee. He is also author of Everywhere Present: Christianity in a One-Storey Universe, and Face to Face: Knowing God Beyond Our Shame, as well as the Glory to God podcast series on Ancient Faith Radio.



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13 responses to “Like A Refugee”

  1. Janine Avatar
    Janine

    Thank you for this, Father.

    I think in this article you also ponder themes of loneliness, alienation. It’s interesting to me how Christ also addressed loneliness in certain ways, especially toward the end of His earthly life. Certainly He dealt with abandonment and betrayal. But I was pondering the passage in John at the beginning of Holy Week when He taught, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it produces much grain” (John 12:24). That “alone” was striking to me. At the Last Supper, He says, “Indeed the hour is coming, yes, has now come, that you will be scattered, each to his own, and will leave Me alone. And yet I am not alone, because the Father is with Me” (John 16:32). It’s striking to me that He’s addressing these issues of aloneness; perhaps what it implies is that even our vocation as Christians will give us this sense in the world at times, but it’s like you’re saying here — we belong also to something and Someone else. I have experienced this in my life, and I feel it is true. Maybe it is even the solution to the alienation and isolation that seems to plague modernity and the younger generation (and is apparently exacerbated somehow through social media). Ironically (perhaps?) what Jesus emphasizes is that sacrifice or giving for the love of God is the antidote for it. Thinking out loud a little… But anyway, I think what you write is very important about “absolutes”

  2. Justin Avatar
    Justin

    Interesting that you post this, since this subject has been front and center in my life for many months. My wife and I have been plagued with an increasingly nagging sense that where we live is no longer our home. Up until recently I have chalked it up to being in the autumn of our lives as parents and the sunset of our careers–yearning (for good or bad) to retire and do what we want for a change. But now, I wonder if it is something different.

    Over the years, we have increasingly felt “not at home” in our various situations: not at home in the church we were brought up and baptized in; not at home in the families we grew up with; not at home in the schools both we and our children graduated from; not at home in our home town; and most startling, not at home in our own home. I can’t blame some selfish, pre-retiree wanderlust for these strange feelings.

    When I was received into the Orthodox Church, my Godfather told me, “Welcome home.” And he was and is right, so much more that I realized at the time. I am at home in the Liturgy and the community that lives there in the Parish. So much so that I have “homesick” feelings when I drive home and am carrying on life during the weeks between attending services. (I live and work about 3 hours away from my parish.) I am in a constant state of “planning” my next attendance to Liturgy or other Church gathering… I can’t wait to get home.

    However, that is not my wife’s home… not yet. We still share the same refugee feeling, trying to press on and find a way to persevere through the onslaught of the losses, the abandonment, and the uncertain road ahead. It’s funny, like when we were kids, I bring her to Church and introduce her to my [new] family… I get that same feeling as when I brought her to meet my family when we got engaged. It’s a joy that is hard to describe.

    So, I try to bring and be the Kingdom everywhere we go, to have the peace that might save a thousand around me, starting with my wife and kids. Is it enough? Will we survive? God knows, and I have to be satisfied with that, with trusting God.

    Thank you, Fr Stephen, for pointing these things out to me, to us. It helps immensely.

  3. Fr Nathan Thompson Avatar
    Fr Nathan Thompson

    Thank you, as always, a deep and enouraging message. I have to ask though, did you just quote Tom Petty?

  4. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Fr. Nathan,
    Having been born in 1953, Tom Petty is not very much on my radar. So, I probably inadvertently quoted him…just as he seems to inadvertently channel Bob Dylan. 🙂

  5. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Justin,
    When I converted to Orthodoxy in 1998, I certainly felt like a refugee. I knew intellectually that Orthodoxy was true, etc., but having been an Episcopal priest for 20 years, it was an alien world in many ways. Indeed, though there were converts at that time, we tended to be gathered in very small groups – store-front churches and the like. The collapsing world of mainstream Anglicanism was obvious to us, but resisting it often sounded quite shrill and cantankerous at the time. The distance between then (1998) and the Obergefell Decision (2015) was massive, though many of us who had been pushing back against the pastoral/doctrinal changes around us were not surprised. Our “prophesies” were fulfilled (which gave me no comfort whatsoever).

    And now, nearly a decade beyond Obergefell, that decision seems rather quaint and conservative.

    And, of course, that is only a view of history through the lens of a single issue. In truth, the “issues” can be pointed back to any number of turning points: 1517, 1054, etc., etc., etc.

    I will offer the observation that Orthodoxy has not been preserved by its doctrine so much as by its practice. Circumstances (frequently beyound our control) have often made it impossible for us to engage in wholesale liturgical changes in the manner that has been a hallmark of the West that even predates the Reformation. It is one of the “happy accidents” of history. Even in our present time, the “incompetence” and “dysfunction” of our present ecclesial situation has made it nearly impossible for us to agree even on small things enough to make any significant changes – likely saving us, yet again, from our own best intentions.

    For myself, I have seen the “refugee” status of Orthodox Christianity for many years, including long before my conversion. When we embraced the faith, I had a sense that I belonged with the refugees – not with the masters of our present culture. I believe, firmly, that God has “saved” us (making us refugees) for very specific reasons. Lossky was already a refugee from Russia (1922). That wave of expulsions inadvertently gave the West a crop of brilliant theologians who would go on the be a vanguard of a theological renewal of Orthodoxy across the world, making possible things like our present wave of conversions through a series of utterly unforseen but happy “accidents.”

    I heard the lonely voice of those refugees when I read my first work of Orthodox theology (Lossky’s Mystical Theology of the Eastern Church, in fact). It spoke to my heart like a siren song…unfulfilled for another 25 years.

    We ourselves are part of this much larger wave of refugees – and we should be ever so honored to walk with them. And we are with them for a purpose, though it might be more than a century before it is revealed (note, Lossky’s first experience as a refugee is now more than 100 years ago).

    Welcome home, indeed! Our home is on the road.

  6. Janine Avatar
    Janine

    “I have been a stranger in a strange land”

  7. Esmée Noelle Covey Avatar
    Esmée Noelle Covey

    I recently had an exchange with a woman on Facebook who took umbrage at the fact that I choose not to vote or participate in politics, as she felt we all have a moral obligation to do so because we are responsible for “building the Kingdom.” She was a Christian, but not sure if Orthodox, but she had no idea that the Kingdom is already built and that it has nothing to do with this world. I appreciate that you keep pointing to this reality, so we can “stay on the road.”

  8. Dee of St Herman Avatar
    Dee of St Herman

    Wow, Father! Thank you so much for this needful reminder!

  9. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Esmée,
    It is staggering to me that people utterly overlook Christ’s own statement: “My kingdom is not of this world. If My kingdom were of this world, My servants would fight, so that I should not be delivered to the Jews; but now My kingdom is not from here.” (John 18:36). People literally make the argument that we should “fight” (vote, argue on Facebook, etc.) in order to “build the Kingdom.” This “build the Kingdom” nonsense has been infiltrating Orthodoxy from several angles (often citing NT Wright). It’s just bad theology – plain and simple. Of course, no doubt, John 18:36 will be argued away as if Jesus meant something else (like so much else that is argued away).

    I mostly blame this notion of Kingdom Building as a by-product of middle-class modernity. Poor people know darned well that they’re not building stuff and haven’t been asked to. It’s a very bourgeoise delusion – which will commonly be found among Americans and others who have long imagined that they are in charge of the outcome of history. Frankly, it’s like trying to colonize the Kingdom of God. It’s too late. The poor, the lame, the blind, etc., have already gotten there ahead of them.

    Is should be of note that the language of “building the Kingdom” is quite popular in Reform circles, and among Mormons. If that doesn’t tell us something then we’re just clueless.

    We may, of course, vote in elections. However, there is no commandment of Christ or in the Scriptures that requires us to vote. “The lesser of two evils” is a devil’s bargain, and does a good job of describing what we are often being asked to do. The Modern Project very much writes politics into the very center of all things – because that is the very nature of the heresy of secularism.

    So – if you don’t vote – then do so with faith in Christ’s Kingdom and the goodness of His Providence. Don’t just be cynical (a sin I often fall into). If you choose to vote, fine. But don’t take yourself too seriously. Pretty much all of them (politicians) will betray you. They have a very long track record of just such a thing.

  10. Dean Avatar
    Dean

    Esmée,
    Not long ago I saw this on a banner of a very large Catholic church under construction (they were asking for donations). “Help us build the Kingdom of God in Visalia.”
    Thanks for your comment.

  11. Esmée Noelle Covey Avatar
    Esmée Noelle Covey

    Father Stephen, I like your analogy of their argument as being akin to “colonizing the Kingdom.” Lol… perfect.

    Dean 🤔🤦‍♀️

  12. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Dean,
    In my Protestant days, (liberal mainstream), we threw that language around without even giving it a serious thought. Frankly, it borders on blasphemy (though most don’t understand that).

  13. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Dean, Esmèe,
    It’s kind of comical that people will speak of “building the Kingdom” and they won’t even tithe. We vote for people who believe that authorizing wars together with their collateral damage, complain about our taxes, ignore the poor among us, and then talk about building the Kingdom. Thank goodness that, in Christ, the Kingdom of God is already come and is among us. Were it otherwise, we would have no hope of ever seeing it. When His Kingdom is made manifest in its fullness (as in Rom. 8), it will sweep away all the hay, wood, and stubble, that we’ve built (in whatever name we’ve mistakenly invoked). There are, no doubt, gold, silver, and precious stones that will be revealed. But, I can promise you, they will quite unexpected and overlooked, and will not be found within the many projects we’ve imagined.

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