I’ll Be Small for Christmas

Children today are raised with dreams of greatness. Cultural affirmations of our limitless potential, well-intentioned, have not produced a generation of over-achievers, but have indeed brought forth hordes of great dreams. This is nothing new in American culture. We are the world’s longest sustained pep-talk. Ronald Reagan loved to quote the 1945 Johnny Mercer hit:

You’ve got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate the negative
Latch on to the affirmative
Don’t mess with Mister In-Between

We sing the songs of progress in the gospel of an ever-improving world. Today, this is the purpose that motivates almost every undertaking, both public and private. However, the cult of progress is the repudiation of grace.

Of course, the world of progress and pep-talks seems quite innocent, and may even be credited with inspiring innovation and effort. At its heart, it is rooted in the Christian faith, though in a heretical iteration that came about in the 18th and 19th centuries. It was timed with the great American drive to the West. Together, they created what is today the largest engine of modern culture and the most dominant civilization in the history of the world.

“Progress,” as a word with its present meaning, only goes back to the 19th century. It describes a sort of eschatology, the Christian doctrine of the end of all things. Traditionally, Christianity has espoused that at the end of time, Christ will return and reveal the fullness of the Kingdom of God. Mystically, the Church also affirmed that this Kingdom-which-is-to-come is somehow already present in the sacramental life of the Church. The 19th century notion, however, was that the Kingdom was something given to humanity to build. Guided by the blueprint of justice described in the Scriptures, it was for us to bring forth the Kingdom in this world as we eliminated poverty and injustice. Beyond all theory, the American Christians of the 19th century not only embraced this new idea, they believed they could already see it happening. “From sea to shining sea,” God’s grace was increasingly manifest in the unfolding destiny of the American century.

This initially Christian belief has long since shed its outward religious trappings and assumed the shape of modern secularism. However, we should not underestimate the religious nature of modernity. No religion has ever felt more certain of its correctness nor its applicability for all people everywhere and at all times than the adherents and practitioners of modern progress. Indeed, that progress assumes that all religions everywhere should quietly agree to find their place in the roll call of those who place their shoulder to the wheel in the building of a better world. Within the rules of secular progress, there is room for all.

The adherents of modernity not only feel certain of the correctness of their worldview; they believe that it should be utterly obvious to any reasonable person. Resistance is reactionary, the product of ignorance or evil intent. But from within classical Christianity, this is pure heresy, and perhaps the most dangerous threat that humanity has ever faced.

No one can argue with doing good things and helping people (and I certainly won’t try). But placing the good we do (or attempt to do) into the context of progress or making the world a “better place” is a serious distortion, one that is actually a distraction from our lives.

There are habits of the heart worth pondering in this context. The train of thought geared towards progress and the greatness of our achievements is rooted in discursive reasoning’s efforts to judge, weigh, measure and compare. It becomes a habit that blinds us to many things. Of note, the faculty that judges, weighs, measures and compares is not the same faculty that sees beauty. It is the faculty of utility, made for tools.

This faculty of the heart that sees beauty is also the faculty that sees the small things and the things that “do not signify.” It is not a practical place nor given to usefulness. The Fathers describe it as the nous, and often simply call it the heart. It is that place through which we have communion with God. It is, interestingly, also the place that recognizes Him in the “least of these my brethren.” It is that place which sees personhood in its proper form, in its utter uniqueness and never as “one of many.”

It is worth considering that our real day is almost completely populated with “small things.” Very few of us act on a global stage, or even a stage much greater than a handful of people and things. Our interactions are often repeated many times over, breeding a sort of familiarity that can numb our attention. We are enculturated into the world of “important” things. We read about important things of the past (and call it history); we are exposed to “important” things throughout the day (and call it news). We learn to have very strong opinions about things of which we know little and about people we have never met.

We have imbibed an ethic of the important – a form of valuing sentiment above all else. We are frequently told in various and sundry ways that if we care about certain things, if we like certain people and dislike others, if we understand certain facts – we are good persons. And we are good because we are part of the greater force that is making the world a better place. All of this is largely make-believe, a by-product of the false religion of modernity. For many people, it has even become the content of their Christianity.

The commandments of Christ always point towards the particular and the small. It is not that the aggregate, the “larger picture,” has no standing, but that we do not live in the “larger picture.” That picture is the product of modern practices of surveys, measurements, forecasts and statistics. The assumptions behind that practice are not those of the Christian faith. They offer (or pretend to offer) a “God’s eye-view” of the world and suggest that we can manage the world towards a desired end. It is little wonder that the contemporary world is increasingly “watched.” At present, nearly 1,100 active satellites are monitoring the earth (floating in a sea of over 500,000 bits of man-made debris). CCTV has become increasingly ubiquitous in major cities of the world. Pretty much every action made on your computer is noted and logged. All of this is a drive towards Man/Godhood.

The drive of God Himself, however, is towards the small and the particular, the “insignificant” and the forgotten. In the incarnate work of Christ, God enters our world in weakness and in a constant action of self-emptying. He identifies people by name and engages them as persons. Obviously, Christ could have raised a finger and healed every ailment in Israel in a single moment. He doesn’t. That fact alone should give us pause – for it is the very thing that we would consider “important” (it is also the sort of thing that constituted the Three Temptations in the Wilderness). Everyone would be healed, but no one would be saved. Those healed would only become sick and die later. This is also the reason that we cannot speak in universal terms about salvation. For though Christ has acted on behalf of all and for all, that action can only be manifested and realized in unique and particular ways by each.

This Divine “drive” is also the proper direction for our own lives. Our proper attention is towards the small, the immediate, the particular, and the present. Saying this creates an anxiety for many, a fear that not paying attention to the greater and the “important” will somehow make things worse. We can be sure that our attention does not make things better in the aggregate, while, most assuredly ignoring the particular things at hand is a true failure. Our spiritual life depends on the concrete and the particular – it is there that the heart is engaged and encounters God. In the “greater” matters, our sentiments are engaged rather than our hearts. You cannot love “world peace,” or “social justice.” These are vagaries that allow us to ignore peace with those around us and justice to those at hand. God does not want “noble” souls – He wants real souls, doing real things, loving real people, dying real deaths.

Follow the path of Christ and become small for Christmas.

Fr. Thomas Hopko, in one of his 55 maxims, said: “Be an ordinary person, one of the human race.”

Indeed.

 

About Fr. Stephen Freeman

Fr. Stephen is a retired Archpriest of the Orthodox Church in America. He is also author of Everywhere Present: Christianity in a One-Storey Universe, and Face to Face: Knowing God Beyond Our Shame, as well as the Glory to God podcast series on Ancient Faith Radio.



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23 responses to “I’ll Be Small for Christmas”

  1. Claudia D Avatar
    Claudia D

    I often listen to Fr Hopko’s 55 Maxims.
    Thank you for these thought provoking words.

  2. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Fr. Stephen wrote:

    “This is also the reason that we cannot speak in universal terms about salvation.”

    Don´t some Orthodox monks, priests, bishops, theologians, thinkers, etc. speak in universal terms?

  3. Tommy Moon Avatar
    Tommy Moon

    I’ve been a faithful reader of your essays for several years now, thanks to one of my parishioners, and this was the best yet – or at least the one that touched me the deepest. A wave of peace and contentment came over me. Thank you.

  4. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Matthew,
    Yes, they do, though most often in very nuanced terms. Most famously, Met. Kallistos Ware wrote that “we may dare hope” for such. Which probably represents Orthodox teaching at its best on that topic.

  5. Tyler Avatar
    Tyler

    I subscribed to this newsletter years ago when I was struggling with my faith and have since lost it. I still continue to read the words of Fr. Stephen.

    This post in particular tugs at my heart. I’ve often believe that a lot of today’s anxieties and strife are related to taking in the whole world’s grief through the news and social media and that we should refocus on the local things in our life.

    I think what is said here is something I can live by. This in particular

    >The drive of God Himself, however, is towards the small and the particular, the “insignificant” and the forgotten. In the incarnate work of Christ, God enters our world in weakness and in a constant action of self-emptying. He identifies people by name and engages them as persons.

  6. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Tyler,
    I often think that our modern crises of faith are rooted in trying to see too much of the world and to make it fit with an abstract notion of God. It falls apart. Like you, I find comfort (and faith) in the small, the particular, in persons. God is not an algorithm.

  7. Ann Dibble Avatar
    Ann Dibble

    You speak my mind. Why does it sound sensible from you, while it sounds crazy from me?

  8. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Ann,
    I haven’t got a clue!

  9. Olga Avatar
    Olga

    Thank you! My heart is touched. Being small brings me peace!

  10. John Mark Lamb Avatar
    John Mark Lamb

    Fr. Stephen wrote, “No one can argue with doing good things and helping people (and I certainly won’t try). But placing the good we do (or attempt to do) into the context of progress or making the world a “better place” is a serious distortion, one that is actually a distraction from our lives.”

    Fr. Stephen, thank you for these insights. There are some today who quote Genesis 1 to “to have dominion over the earth” as the Cultural Mandate, to create good culture, not dominate it. They use a framework of Creation, Fall, Redemption, and Restoration as The Story of the Whole World. I sense that you are saying something else. I welcome your thoughts on this.

  11. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    John Mark,
    It’s a modern interpretation of that verse, not likely to be found prior to the 1700’s or later. In many ways, the period of time we call “modernity” is a by-product of certain protestant ideas that have, in many ways, become a heresy. It’s a narrative about “progress” and the “better world” that is not in the least compatible with the Kingdom of God or the gospel of Christ. Rather, it’s been something of a sales campaign to justify lots of exploitation, injustice, and denigration of the environment (which, under analysis, seems to mostly be about increasing profits). It’s a story we tell ourselves, but not the story God tells us in His beloved Son.

    I’m very cautious about extracts from the gospel: schemes such as “Creation, Fall, Redemption, Restoration” – which become slogans for secularism. Orthodoxy looks to the Church Fathers and what has been handed down to us – rather than to the huge variety of modernized gospels.

    You might find this previous article of interest.

  12. Alan Avatar
    Alan

    Outstanding Father. Thank you!

  13. Janette Adelle Reget Avatar
    Janette Adelle Reget

    Several years ago I was seeing a therapist who told me, “We are all ordinary.” I have never forgotten that.

  14. Stephen M Avatar
    Stephen M

    Hello Father! I am a recent convert in America who has been loving your blog. Would you say that this post also applies to my situation of being concerned about how orthodoxy is faring in the United States?

    My intuition tells me yes: I should focus on my local situation and people rather than being concerned with the “larger picture” of orthodoxy in the US.

    Please let me know, and thank you and Merry Christmas!

  15. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Stephen,
    Thank you. I’m glad you’re enjoying the blog! Welcome home to Orthodoxy!

    I especially think that this applies to our life within the Church here in America. First, no matter the time or place, the Church has always endured struggles. We trust that they are allowed by God and trust that, despite any evil intentions of the evil one, God works us good through all things. It is especially important not to spend time and energy being concerned about things over which we have no control. Avoid arguments. Avoid websites that concern themselves with the “state” of Orthodoxy here or anywhere. It is in the hands of God.

    I quoted from the 55 maxims of Fr. Thomas Hopko of blessed memory. Here’s a website with all 55. They are Orthodox wisdom from a very wise priest and a teacher of many.

  16. Ook Avatar
    Ook

    “However, we should not underestimate the religious nature of modernity.”
    Indeed, in my misspent youth I often dealt with NGO types who I was certain would have been British missionaries had they been born in the 19th century.

    I recall a cartoon in The New Yorker, two men talking, one explaining that his wife handles all the budget, maintenance, education etc, but that he has the more important role, representing the family’s view of United Nations resolutions.

  17. George Avatar
    George

    While we may highlight positive trends, we cannot humbly extrapolate findings across an infinite continuum. Applied calculus relies on the rigor of upper and lower bounds; however, modern discourse often disregards these constraints in favor of unverifiable claims of infinity. Such boundless assertions are both mathematically unnecessary and empirically impossible to validate.

    When we adhere to the notion of the excluded middle, we forgo the Pauline concept “already but not yet.” We stop listening to the soft, quiet voice of God and revel in our hubris when, in fact, we have been afforded a moment’s grace to give God the glory.

  18. terence Avatar
    terence

    Thankyou Father,
    I read every word of yours twice, and ponder
    good wishes to you and your family over Christmas

  19. Andrew Avatar
    Andrew

    “We have imbibed an ethic of the important – a form of valuing sentiment above all else. We are frequently told in various and sundry ways that if we care about certain things, if we like certain people and dislike others, if we understand certain facts – we are good persons. And we are good because we are part of the greater force that is making the world a better place.”

    This is such a perfect description of our times. Social media has only exacerbated this. Everyone shouting ‘important’ opinions at each other, with the firm conviction that because they supposedly hold these opinions and have broadcast them, they have somehow done something meaningful. I was totally wrapped in in this myself for several years. I’ve largely abandoned most forms of social media and almost never watch the ‘news’ anymore. I have close relationship constantly banging the drum that I have to stay ‘informed!’ as if knowing about all the terrible things happening in every corner of the world will somehow make a difference in the very immediate struggle of trying to raise my family and keep the Faith. This post has very strong echoes of any early on you wrote, “Doing the Good you can Do”, that I have returned to over and over. It’s been one of the most important things I’ve read and I think you sincerely for it.

  20. Dee of Sts Herman and Olga Avatar
    Dee of Sts Herman and Olga

    Echoing the thanks of many commentators, Father, thank you for this timely and edifying article.

    Being small for Christmas is so well captured in the picture you have included with this article. Being small allows one to see and wonder like a child. As the Lord says, such are the ones who live in the Kingdom of God.

  21. Fr. Stephen Avatar

    Dee,
    Thank you. The photo is a couple of years old with my youngest grandson looking at the tree. The boys are staying with us (together with their parents) over the Christmas holidays this year (which fills our home!). So, much like back in our 30’s, we’re waking up in the mornings with young children surrounding us. Tomorrow, of course, the Church services begin to multiply…until the feast is complete.

    Having my two younger grandsons (9 and 5) with us brings our focus down to the small (and the truly important). Today, the followed the path of our creek about 100 yards and reported it to be “the greatest adventure ever!” How is that not the case?

    The thought of waking up on Christmas morn to the joy of children and their presents is a dream-come-true. My son and his family hope to re-locate down here from Tennessee, but they are able to join us quite frequently (my son’s job is very portable).

    We had a Christmas pageant at the Church Sunday afternoon – I was transported through the years to ever-so-many such pageants. It’s a very sweet tradition. I am coming to treasure my friendships with young children as a glimpse of paradise itself.

  22. Dee of Sts Herman and Olga Avatar
    Dee of Sts Herman and Olga

    Dear Father!
    Such wonderful blessings to experience and hear about.! Your comment brings me joy imagining the joyful excitement and made me smile about the creekside adventure!

    Merry Christmas and blessings to you and your family!

  23. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Hello everyone.

    I just wanted to quickly offer up a warm and loving Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year to you all.

    This blog represents for me a safe space, a space which is full of life and where people gather in peace to exchange thoughts about the most important things in life. I have not found any other space like this anywhere online. My hope and prayer is that this space will remain alive and well for as long as God desires.

    I truly appreciate all the patience given to me as I ponder things outloud here in the comment section. I process things best when I can share openly and also as I write and read responses. I have always been a questioning person and what Father Stephen writes about often feeds this aspect of my personality. I have learned so much here and I have also grown so much in my faith. Although I am not Orthodox, I feel very much at home within Orthodoxy. Thank you all.

    May the God who deserves the glory for all good things bless all of you so very much this holiday season!

    Matthew

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