Good Friday and the Irony of Believing

Irony is probably too much to ask of youth. If I can remember myself in my college years, the most I could muster was sarcasm. Irony required more insight.

There is a deep need for the appreciation of irony to sustain a Christian life. Our world is filled with contradiction. Hypocrisy is ever present even within our own heart. The failures of Church and those who are most closely associated with it can easily crush the hearts of the young and break the hearts of those who are older.

I can think of at least two times in my life that the failures of Church, or its hierarchy, drove me from the ranks of the Church, or what passed for Church at the time. As years have gone by I haven’t seen less that would disappoint or break the heart – indeed the things that troubled me as a young man barely compare with revelations we all have seen in recent years.

No hands are clean. Evangelical, Roman Catholic, Orthodox, Anglican, the failures and coverups are in no way the special province of any. The question of truth remains – but in a contest of the pure, everyone loses. The irony remains. Our failures would not be so poignant if the Kingdom were not so pure. Judas’ betrayal is darkened all the more by the fact that his victim is God Himself.

All of which brings us back to the irony that remains. The greatest irony of all is the God who forgives and remains ever faithful to us despite the contradictions.

When speaking with seekers – those who are asking questions about the Orthodox faith – it’s important early on to be sure that they are not in search of the perfect Church. The One, True Church means something quite distinct from perfect. A good read through Orthodox history (which for a thousand years is just “Church history”) refuses to give up an ideal century – the mark and measure for reform. Any student of the New Testament has to admit that there are no Letters to the Perfect.

From the moment of the resurrection, Christ continues to gather scattered sheep. Betrayal, denial and cowardice were the hallmark of the Church on Good Friday. But from Christ we hear no blame – if only because He never thought us to be other than we are.

Now when he was in Jerusalem at the Passover feast, many believed in his name when they saw the signs which he did; but Jesus did not trust himself to them, because he knew all men and needed no one to bear witness of man; for he himself knew what was in man (John 2:23-25).

And if we are honest with ourselves and know what is in man, then we can only give thanks for the wondrous irony that, knowing all that, Christ gave Himself for us anyway. It is the very character of love.

I have been asked a few times over the years the meaning of St. Paul’s statement that “love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7). There is either almost nothing to say about it or far too much to say about it. But it is the irony of the Cross: Love enduring all things. If you know the Cross and the Love that there is crucified then the verse likely needs no explanation. Christ is His own exegesis.

And when I turn myself to the Church (or myself), I can only reach for Christ and the assurance that the contradictions we offer Him will be forgiven. And this is a thought to cling to even in the best of times. For any who would be His disciples, the Cross and its irony is the only path that is ever offered. Glory to His grace!

About Fr. Stephen Freeman

Fr. Stephen is a retired Archpriest of the Orthodox Church in America. He is also author of Everywhere Present: Christianity in a One-Storey Universe, and Face to Face: Knowing God Beyond Our Shame, as well as the Glory to God podcast series on Ancient Faith Radio.



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8 responses to “Good Friday and the Irony of Believing”

  1. Liz Flowers Avatar
    Liz Flowers

    So good!!! May we all embrace irony!

  2. Jenny Avatar
    Jenny

    Father,

    If only a church here could be perfect! The Lord deserves a glorious church, and He will make it so for His own sake.

    But as you say, He must bear with a broken one while we are here. And so we bear with ourselves, and each other, and all our faith is in Him.

    Even as it is, I have never heard Christ so clearly as I have this morning, while reading the Psalms included Matins for Holy Friday. I couldn’t read it steadily. I almost needed strength to keep continue reading one after the other.

    You already know this, and I am just a housewife in southern Indiana, but even to me, it is clear that only a saint could have put that material together in the way that it is ordered.

    I had reached the tone 8, which is talking about Judas. Whenever Judas is talked about, the shock and horror of the original disciples is preserved in the words.

    And as this is being sung, I read that the Gospel is brought out, candles are lit and the whole church is given incense.

    I wonder, what is the passage that is read after the prayers? So I look it up:

    “When he was gone, Jesus said, “Now the Son of Man is glorified and God is glorified in him.”

    The passage goes on, of course. But I was sitting there, stunned.

    I understand better now why it is that the Scriptures are best understood through the Liturgy.

  3. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    I have been a Christian for a lot of years.

    Still, when I survey the wondrous cross on which my Savior died, even today, even on all the Good Fridays of my past, even after all the explained atonement theories, I simply tarry there in silent awe. It´s as though I know nothing of the love that is being revealed to me.

  4. Janine Avatar
    Janine

    Hi Matthew
    I think that to feel you “know nothing” of His love is proper to that love being so far beyond our grasp in its fullness. Maybe the awe is communicating just that in you. And “wondrous” is a perfect word, because it indicates a journey ahead to learn more IMO
    Blessed Good Friday and Pascha
    Yours
    Janine

  5. Matthew Avatar
    Matthew

    Thanks so much Janine.

  6. Carolyn Avatar
    Carolyn

    Jenny,

    Just wondering what are your readings from?

    I’m not orthodox, but enjoy learning. It’s seems much more richer than my up bringing and current church situation.

    Carolyn

  7. Jenny Avatar
    Jenny

    Carolyn,

    I am the merest baby myself when it comes to things things, and I am not entirely sure where I am myself. Father Stephen, or any of his other long time readers will know much better to direct you.

    It was the matins in Father Stephen’s article called The Bridegroom and Judgment that made me start to look farther. The matins were so beautiful that I wanted to find more of them, and to read them in more of their context.

    I did an internet search, and eventually ended up at a website called saintjonah.org. They have a list called The Texts for Holy Week.

    It is so rich, isn’t it? I can only read so much and then I must stop and think about it. Then I go back to them, because I keep seeing the Lord so clearly in them.

  8. Cathy Avatar
    Cathy

    This quote has carried me through some of the darkest moments in my life as a Roman Catholic. Especially during this current pontificate that seems hell bent on punishing traditionalists. ” The individual bears the Church in his faith, both Her dynamic power and Her weight; the Church is present to him as She is. She bears him and weighs him down. Her life nourishes him. Her immensity humbles him. Her breadth enlarges his horizon. Her wisdom gives him a rule of life. Her power enlarges his field of activity. Her formalism blocks him; Her coldness hardens him; and whatever is violent, selfish, hard, or vulgar about the Church has an influence upon the faith of the individual, so that he sometimes seems obliged to sustain the cause of God, not only in the darkness of the world, but also in that of the Church.” Rev. Romano Guardini (Living the Drama of Faith)

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